My coming out story

Coming out is a lifetime process. You don’t get to do it just once.   The first time I came out I was 21. I lovingly call these my “baby queer” years.   My friend introduced me to her gay friend, and she showed me around the queer community. She was an inspiration. She was […]

2020 Reflections

I walked into 2020 like an innocent, angel baby. I had no idea what was in store for me this year, I mean really, who did? 2019 was a huge year of transformation, and I can’t say 2020 was any different. In January of 2020 my partner had just got out of sober living and […]

Queers Next Door on Queering Up Sex Toys

Check out our first guest post on Hot Octopuss: Queers Next Door on Queering Up Sex Toys   We had such a lovely experience reviewing Hot Octopuss toys and writing for their blog on Queers Next Door, hope to do it again soon!   A core tenet of the sex-positive movement is the idea that […]

PORN REVIEW! Crash Pad Series Episode 45: Dylan Ryan and Jiz Lee

This is my first porn review, as well as my first full episode of the Crash Pad Series! I have never been into porn much (the same way I wasn’t into sex toys till I started getting active on my blog!), so I was a bit hesitant to start watching an episode. It took me […]