How I got back to monogamy

Today someone asked me on my instagram how I deal with jealousy and insecurity in an open relationship. It sparked me to want to write about that a bit since I’ve not shared much about why I am no longer polyamorous.

The short answer is, I didn’t deal with it. I kept thinking with time and work it would get easier, but for me, it didn’t.

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Plan with me!

Planner from The Happy Planner, stickers from the Dollar Tree. This is the planner I use for my own personal brand. So excited I’ll be getting an Erin Condren Spooky Vertical Planner to replace this one, and this one will likely go to planning for the author I work for. Maybe that will be in next weeks video!

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Finally Settled

We are finally settled in Baltimore.

Our bedroom set was delivered, just waiting for another dresser and nightstand. My office is functioning and I have all my stuff around me. It feels like me. It feels like home.

When we’ve visited here in the past I have always  loved it, I just really missed my dog. Now that she’s with us, I feel complete here.

My partner is so fantastic. She is the calm to my storm. I am so in love. I am so happy.

It’s scary to be this happy, really. I’m always waiting for something bad to happen. Stupid PTSD.


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