Coming out is a lifetime process. You don’t get to do it just once. The first time I came out I was 21. I lovingly call these my “baby queer” years. My friend introduced me to her gay friend, and she showed me around the queer community. She was an inspiration. She was […]
I walked into 2020 like an innocent, angel baby. I had no idea what was in store for me this year, I mean really, who did? 2019 was a huge year of transformation, and I can’t say 2020 was any different. In January of 2020 my partner had just got out of sober living and […]
* i didn’t used to be able to dream about it without being horrified, then slowly i started to dream about being in her room and it’s dark and gloomy and dusty & that i’m helping her clean it up, then it kept getting more and more ‘normal’ looking and now, like this morning, it […]
I’ve said this before, but I think this is the real issue with most things that are violent that I see on the news and in documentaries/movies/TV I no longer have the option of filtering out these scary horrific things in the world. I used to think “These things happen to other people” and feel […]
I once had someone tell me that I am afraid of healing. I’m afraid of treating my depression and dealing with my loss because I think that it’s what connects me to my mother. That may very well have been true for a long while, but not anymore. Continue reading at: HiMeganAshley.com