It’s my party and I’ll cry if I want to…

Mental Health Diaries- Since I haven’t written one of these in a while, why not on my birthday! Doesn’t that sound like fun?

Wow, it’s here! I am 31. I can’t believe how fast this year went by. 30 felt like such a big deal, so this feels kinda- meh. Plus, I usually hate my birthday and get really depressed around this time, and this year is no different. I have slept more in the last week than I have in months. (more…)

July Wrap Up

well well well, here I am.. only 9 days late this time…

July was a GREAT month. June was shit, so I’m very happy that July turned around for me. I was a busy little bee with events, networking, and I even had time to fit in a few dates 🙂 (more…)

Review: The Big Oh! Box

The Big Oh! Box is a quarterly sex toy subscription box that is sent discreetly to your doorstep ‘featuring a curated selection of full-sized sex toys & accessories designed to stimulate your appetite for exploration’. This review is of the Spring box, and the theme is Organic and Natural goodies. I was so very excited to open it on camera as you can see above. (more…)

June Gloom (monthly wrap up)

Half of the year is over! When I made this blog I promised myself I would NEVER miss a monthly wrap up. I am bad with commitment so they never end up being posted til it’s pretty much midway through the next month, but nevertheless… I kept my promise to myself for a whole half-a-year, so that deserves some celebration, right?

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PORN REVIEW! Crash Pad Series Episode 45: Dylan Ryan and Jiz Lee

This is my first porn review, as well as my first full episode of the Crash Pad Series! I have never been into porn much (the same way I wasn’t into sex toys till I started getting active on my blog!), so I was a bit hesitant to start watching an episode. It took me a solid few weeks to make the time to sit down and do it.

Before I knew about being an ethical porn consumer, I would occasionally go to the free porn sites and type in “lesbian sex”, but never saw any sex that resembled the kind I was having. I’ve always heard wonderful things about the Crash Pad Series, that they featured real queer performers and all different bodies, so I knew that if I was ever gonna love porn, this might be a good place to start. Ethical, inclusive, and queer-friendly? Sign me up! (more…)